Over the weekend, something magical happened. My mother planned and organized a reception in Michigan to celebrate my marriage to Beth. The invite list was mainly focused on local family that wouldn’t have been able to make the Chicago wedding, like my 95 year old grandmother, and a few friends with kids or who wouldn’t have been available to make the Chicago dates.
The gesture was so sweet, and it was a pleasure to get to experience our special day again and share it with new faces. Beth also got to meet more of my family, as well as several of my friends we don’t get to see in Chicago very often.
The event took place inside Weller’s in Saline, MI, which is an old mill converted into a reception hall. They have several halls, in fact, and our event was in the main wing in a very rustic and classy room. Dinner was served buffet style, with a very tasty selection, finished off with cup cakes my mother made herself for dessert.
We went through an abridged version of the first dances (some of our songs were really quite long), and then the floor opened up for people to get their groove on.
It was an opportunity to relive a magical evening with a group of fresh faces, and Beth and I were very grateful for that. Thanks so much for organizing, Mom!
Below are a few photos taken from the event on my cell phone (more photos will follow when we get them back from the photographer)
Daddy Daughter Dance part 2
Old friends back together again
Hanging with Nicole
The Wife making an “M” with her hands…for “Muella!”
Greg and Vicky were tuckered out by the end of the night
The menu for the wedding trailer blu-ray – with 11 minute menu, 12 minute blooper reel, and more!
The happy couple
When we last left off in our story, Beth and I had just gotten married, taken some photos with the wedding party on a playground, and then headed off to the banquet hall for the reception. We had decorated the hall with personalized centerpieces (each table number had pictures of Beth and I at that age, as well as some of our favorite love quotes on books surrounded by paper roses), napkins that had trivia facts about Beth and I, and thank yous written to the guests.
While everyone enjoyed drinks and food brought around by the wait staff, Beth and I stood in a receiving line to say hello to everyone. The receiving line took up most of the cocktail hour, but that was okay – we cut cocktail hour short by about 12 minutes for the introductions that I wanted to have.
Albert the Alien creative team Trevor and Gabe, sharing the love
So, this year has been a little light for me in terms of turning out comics work. However, we had a 12 page mini-comic included in the invitation, and then I worked on writing, producing, and staring in 4 (we wrote 6) fake movie trailers. Now, these trailers were each a different genre, and each a different stage in our relationship. The last of these trailers would be used to directly set up the DJ to introduce the wedding party.
For your viewing pleasure, below are the trailers:
The Better Half – Romantic Comedy Trailer
I Do – Action Movie Trailer
The Honeymoon – Horror Movie Trailer
The Wedding Party – Superhero Movie Trailer
After the wedding party was introduced, Beth and I made our entrance and said a few words, thanking everyone in the room for their amazing love, support, and encouragement over the years. And without further delay, Beth and I moved in to our cake cutting. Beth and I sliced the cake together, and I fed her first. When it was her turn, there was a hesitation, then a crack smile – immediately followed by her spreading the cake across my forehead.
The cake toppers…eventually, the groom was also covered in frosting
After whipping my head clean, we took our seats and began having dinner. Speeches then followed – my brother giving me a pretty good entertaining (yet sentimental) jab, Beth’s two matrons of honor saying some pretty sweet things about her, and then a surprise speech from one of my groomsmen, Josh Elder. The speeches were fantastic, followed by food that was also fantastic.
During dinner, the DJs played rat pack era music, and one of the photographers set up a photobooth (similar to a homecoming dance formals photo area). After dinner ended, we went into our formals dances – Beth and I danced to “You’ve Got a Friend in Me,” by Randy Newman. Beth then danced with her father to “Cinderella,” by Steven Curtis Chapman. I then danced with my mother to “What a Wonderful World” by Israel Kamakawiwo’ole.
After that, the DJs opened up the floor and started mixing music late into the night. The floor never emptied, before we know it the night was over.
After the reception hall closed, Beth and I headed over to the hotel bar – and several of the groomsmen had grabbed the booze from our room, so the party could go even later into the night. Beth and I retired a bit earlier, but I’m told the party lasted well past 3am.
Photo booth shots of the bride and groom
The comic book men
Beth and I got up the next morning for breakfast with our families, and then headed back into the city and spent most of the day sleeping. It had been an entire year building up towards this single day, which was amazing and awesome and exhausting and exhilarating all at the same time. It really was the best day of our lives (so far).
Thank you so much to everyone who attended (and those who could not) for your love, support, enthusiasm, and encouragement over the years past – and we look forward you being a part of the story of our lives in the years yet to come.
Seriously, the picture says it all
In the morning of the wedding, I headed downstairs for a quick bite of breakfast and then went to the room to start getting ready. There will be more pictures later, but the groomsmen all got ready in my room while the photographic assistant, Christine, tolerated our boy-jokes and watched This is the End (which is hilarious, and highly quotable).
We took a lot of photos, filled out flasks with some tasty adult beverages, and headed downstairs to catch the shuttle – which was taking us to the photo shoot that preceded the ceremony.
Even though it wasn’t desirable, Beth and I knew there wasn’t enough time to take all the pictures we wanted between the ceremony and reception. Therefore, we did first look and wedding party pictures before the ceremony. I know it’s bad luck to see the bride before the wedding, but I’m pretty sure Beth and I couldn’t go that long. Good thing we’re not a superstitious lot.
The groomsmen in the shuttle, on the way to the photo locations
The groomsmen arrived before the girls in the trolley, and started taking a few pictures while we waited. It was a sunny but cold fall day outside, so we had to keep moving while we were outside and waiting. It wasn’t a long wait, however, and pretty soon I was whisked away by the photographer (Colin Lyons) to a bridge in the park and told to turn around.
I could hear Beth approaching – the joy and nervousness in her voice. Eventually I was told to turn around, and there she was – my bride to be, my future wife, and my best friend, all wrapped up into one person.
We took photos in the park as a group at first, and then Beth and I went around by ourselves and the photographers for a while. Once I have the photos, I’ll be sharing them – should take around 60 days.
Greeting guests as they arrive for the ceremony
After the photos, the group got on the trolley and headed to the church to prepare and greet our guests. People arrived, took their seats, many hugs and high fives were given, and eventually it was time for everyone to take their spots. I walked out with the deacon, and watched as everyone in the wedding party entered into the room. My mother (and mother-to-be), my groomsmen, the bridesmaids, the ring bearers (who we dressed up as ring security, and had them enter to the Mission Impossible theme song – which immediately returned to the processional music after they sat down), the flower girls, and then, finally, the lady of my life.
Beth and I were flying high on all kinds of emotions. Several of my friends were making funny faces throughout the ceremony, which helped to keep me grounded and remember my word for the wedding: fun. But we had plenty of Beth’s word (personal) throughout the weekend as well. Did I mention the welcome bags everyone got at the hotel, with TMNT cookies and other snacks?
The happy couple
After the ceremony ended, the bridal party disappeared into the back room so we could rush through photos at the church with the family. We had about 30 minutes to take all the pictures, and then hopped back on the trolley for some more photos at a nearby playground. But the day was not over yet. The best was yet to come.
TO BE CONTINUED…
Those of you who know me personally know that I rarely like to keep quiet. That I like to do more than write comics and talk about comics, but to spread the word on all things that I’m passionate about. But for some strange reason, I’ve been super quiet for the past (almost) year, and very specifically in the last several months. Not many blogs, reviews, or things outside of the comics. And this is all for a very good reason: I’ve kind of had a life-changing event occur.
For those of you who don’t follow my Twitter or Facebook, I recently got married to the most awesome girl on the planet. Nay, scratch that – in the universe! It was a lot of work putting together our perfect day – but thankfully we had a lot of help from the amazing people in our lives. And now, I would like to share that story with you. Because even if you haven’t met me in person, or even if we haven’t hung out outside of a convention or a panel or something of the like, you know that I love to tell stories. And trust me – this is a story worth sharing.
Where do I begin….?
For the last year, Beth and I have been toiling away on the multiple details that went into our wedding. You see, when we first started planning this thing we picked one word each that we wanted to describe the wedding day itself. My word was fun. Her word was personal. And the last year has been spent making this day themed around those two very words. And it has been a lot of work, to say the least. But worth it.
So Friday night was the night of the rehearsal, broken out into two parts: the ceremony rehearsal, followed by the rehearsal dinner.
Friday started off with Beth, Josh (one of my groomsmen), and myself heading out to Schaumburg. Beth had a few hours with her matrons of honor in a spa, meanwhile Josh and I went to the hotel to hang out. Josh had to bang out a script, so I went to the lobby to chill with guests as they arrived – and eventually went to Portillo’s for a quick bit of lunch.
After food, we stopped back off in the hotel to relax a bit before changing into some fancier outfits (that’s right, I can clean up – try not to feint) and headed over to the church. We ran through a somewhat confusing rehearsal of the ceremony that would occur tomorrow, stayed a little longer than we should have, and then drove over to our dinner at Dave and Busters (Beth’s idea).
Thank you speech for our friends and family
Since we were arriving late, most of our guests were already in the large room we had rented at Dave and Busters. Beth and I thanked our guests for coming – some from very far, some from five minutes away – and invited them to enjoy the fajita buffet (which was extremely tasty) and bar. We handed out gifts to our wedding party, had a quick bite our own selves, and then handed out the treat of the evening: game cards!
Groomsmen gift – personalized flasks (among other things)
A great way to unwind before the big day
The group disappeared into the place to play various games (many people attaining tickets up the wazoo), unwinding, and acting like kids. It was a great way to relax before the big event the next day, and a fun way for people in the wedding party to get to know each other a little better.
After hours playing some games, Beth went to her mother’s house and I retired to the hotel. I hung out with some of the guys until around 2am, drinking whiskey and catching up with some people I haven’t seen in years. It was the perfect night before my life would change forever.
TO BE CONTINUED…
Welcome bags for our wedding party…and foreshadowing for things to come
So the wife-to-be and I have been super swamped with wedding prep. At this point we’re about a month away from the big day, and while we’re super excited – we’re also super busy.
However, we did get a chance to take a break for a few wedding showers this weekend, celebrating our union early with family. We had done one earlier in the summer with my family, and this time we got to do one with Beth’s family in Illinois. Her family went out of their way to theme the event (something they enjoy doing to all celebrations), which was based on the hit TV series Downton Abbey.
The family rented a hall in an historic hotel in Franklin Park, and decorated the place with old-timey pictures of Beth and I. The set dressing was done extremely well. We didn’t even notice it until the end of the event. Beth’s youngest brother even rented a tux with tails and served us like a butler.
Just about everyone was in 1920s inspired attire, except for me – which wasn’t on purpose. When trying to find my black and white suit, I went to put on my shoes and they felt a little funny. Turns out the bottom of them was destroyed! Not sure how it happened, but the soles looked like shattered glass being held together by good intentions. Since they were my only pair of black dress shoes, my options were:
1) Wear brown shoes with the black and white outfit
2) Change outfits
I went with #2, but unfortunately no longer really fit with the theme. It was still a pretty party, though.
The decorations were top notch (and really fit into the surroundings)
Beth in her 1920s attire
The soon to be happy couple – photo-bombed by the groom’s best man
After the shower ended, the couple (that’s me and Beth) went our separate ways for our respective bachelor / bachelorette parties. Beth went to the city with her girls, and my brother took me out to the suburbs for a night filled with something he wouldn’t tell me about. Thankfully, the guy knew me pretty well and have planned out the perfect evening.
We started off in the hotel room with some top shelf whiskey and snacks (Doritos, Cheetos – my favorite snacks that are terrible for you), and my groomsmen slowly started to trickle in. We were joined by Greg, Russell, Scott, Carl, and Adam. After a few hours of hanging out and playing SNES games in the room, we headed out to our first stop for the night: Medieval Times!
The bachelor party begins!
I had never been to this place before, but it’s always fascinated me and looked like a lot of fun. You get assigned to a section (there are 6 total) that applies to a knight, and you root for your knight while they participate in feats of fancy. All the while you get to eat dinner like a king – with your fingers! Soup, chicken, ribs, bread, a giant potato, a pastry, and chocolate cake greeted us throughout the evening while we hooted and hollered at the knights.
Trevor and his lil’ bro
Our knight was the Black and White knight, who we dubbed Thor because the guy had blonde curly hair and a thin beard. He wasn’t a very good knight, however, missing many of the rings with his lance and they getting taken out by the Green Knight in the first round of the joust.
The announcer introduces the knights
While the night was awesome, our knight sucked….
The group then had to decide who to root for, and quickly picked the other colored knights on our side of the arena. However, they too were quickly wiped out of the competition. The ultimate winner was the red and yellow knight – directly across from us in the area. Suffice it to say, we HATED this guy. And we wanted to see him lose.
After the joust had ended, the king was interrupted by a Barbarian character who wanted to take over the kingdom. The champion (our enemy, the red and yellow knight) had to defend his honor, and a huge battle ensued between the knight and the barbarian. The knight’s squire even entered the battle, and he fared better than our black and white knight – to which we kept chanting that our knight sucked.
As you can imagine, we were cheering for the barbarian to win. However, it was still an awesome time, and a great way to start out our evening.
Our next stop on the bachelor party train was Game Works, where we drank and played games well past the amount of time my brother originally intended for us to be there. We were met by Zeev, and also ran into some friends who were just at the place – June and John. They bought us some shots and we hung out for a bit, and then went on our way slaying zombies with various firearms, playing lots of shooting games, racing until we broke every speed record in the world, and then finishing the night out with some much needed pool.
GameWorks, baby! How nerds celebrate in style!
After we closed GameWorks down, we headed back to the hotel and hung out in the room, drinking and playing SNES until almost 4:30am. All in all, it was the best bachelor party I could have asked for!
Thanks so much to my brother for organizing everything (and for somehow keeping me in the dark – thus pleasantly surprising me – on who would be there, and what we were doing), for the awesome people in my life who were able to attend, and to the amazing people who were there in spirit. You all rock, and I can’t wait to marry Beth! Only about a month to go!
So one of the projects I’ve been working on is writing a series of fake movie trailers for my wedding. I’m used to writing comic scripts, so thinking visually is nothing new – however, a shooting script is quite different from a comic script.
In a comic, there’s no actual motion. So you can plot by panel, and control the flow of time with the kind of panel you use. However, with a shooting script you have to control the flow of time in real-time – with dialogue, images, whatever.
You also establish tone very differently, since trailers are a medium in motion and also engagement more senses – namely, visual and auditory. You can reply on tone of voice, tone of music – and you can change tones very quickly and quite differently.
So adopting to the new techniques has been an interesting and fun challenge, to be sure. A few friends of mine are working on the shooting scripts, which I’m sure will change radically on the day of shooting. Carl had already done a series of movie trailers (my favorite is embedded below), and he said a lot of improv was thrown in. And since we want these trailers to be funny (or so over the top they’re comical), I imagine a lot of improv will be used again.
The man’s done it before, and I love movie trailers – so I’m sure we’ll put together an entertaining product. I’ll be sure to share once we have stuff to share.
This recipe was super awesome, but honestly I would change a few things about it. I’m not normally a seafood guy, so limiting that taste appeals to me. I would use less clam juice, and instead of canned crab I would use fresh lobster. Also, I would skip the tarragon completely (use chives or green onion, instead). I’m not a fan of it.
Creamy Crab Bisque
4 tbsp unsalted butter
1 cup diced leeks
1/2 cup diced carrots
1/2 cup diced celery
1 tbsp tomato paste
1/4 cup all-purpose flour
1 cup dry white wine
2 cups bottled clam juice
3 cups half and half
1/4 cup dry sherry
salt and pepper to taste
3 cans jumbo lump crab meat
1) Melt butter in a large pot over medium heat. Add leeks, carrots, and celery; sweat until carrot softens, about 8 minutes. Stir in tomato paste and cook 1 minute. Add flour and cook 1 minute.
2) Deglaze pot with wine and simmer until nearly evaporated. Whisk in clam juice, half and half, and sherry. Cook bisque just until it boils, stirring occasionally, then season with salt and pepper.
3) Off heat, puree bisque with a handheld blender.
4) Heat bisque over medium just until foam subsides, about 5 minutes
5) Divide bisque among soup bowls. Top each serving with crab, and garnish with tarragon
Barley and Potato Soup
10 cups low-sodium vegetable broth
1 cup dry pearled barley
1 lbs red-skinned potatoes, quartered
1 cup sliced carrots
1 cup sliced fennel bulb
1 cup sliced leeks
1 package arugula (5 oz)
2 tbsp chopped fresh dill
2 tbsp fresh lemon juice
1 tsp kosher salt
black pepper to taste
1) Boil broth and barley in a large pot over high heat. Once boiling, reduce heat to medium and simmer 50-55 minutes
2) Add potatoes, carrots, fennel, and leeks and simmer until fork-tender, 15-20 minutes
3) Stir in arugula, dill, lemon juice and salt. Season soup with pepper and garnish each serving with lemon zest
Beth and I love to cook, and so my mother got us Cuisine Magazine. We found some excellent recipes in there and tried them out over the weekend.
Asparagus Wraps with Proscuitto & Marinated Mozzarella
1/2 cup Italian salad dressing
1 tsp dijon mustard
8 oz fresh mozzarella, sliced (at least 8 slices)
1 lb fresh asparagus, trimmed
1 tbsp olive oil
salt and pepper
4 flour tortillas
12 thin slices prosciutto
1) Preheat oven 425 degrees
2) Whisk Italian and dijon mustard together, then pour over mozzarella slices in a shallow dish. Turn mozzarella to coat with marinade. Set mozzarella aside to marinate while preparing asparagus
3) Toss asparagus spears with oil and season with salt and pepper; transfer to a baking sheet. Roast asparagus until crisp-tender (approx 8-10 minutes).
4) Heat a large nonstick skillet over medium high
5) Brush inside of the tortillas with the marinade, then top with 2-3 slices marinated mozzarella, 3 slices proscuitto, and a quarter of the asparagus.
6) Tightly roll up wraps; brush outsides with marinade. Brown wraps in hot skillet (I used a George Forman grill) until golden and mozzarella slightly melts. Remove wraps and slice in half on the bias.
So, it’s been a crazy week. I’m recovering from the Norovirus (a horrible, painful stomach bug), which has definitely made things complicated. However, it hasn’t slowed me down, and that’s a good thing.
Enough about being sick. Let’s talk about awesome stuff going on:
I start my new job on Monday. I’m super excited for this challenging opportunity and advancement. I don’t normally talk about work on my blogs, so don’t expect any details, but I like to keep you guys in the loop on the goings on in my life. This is obviously a big change, and hopefully a positive opportunity.
AW YEAH COMICS:
Art and Franco launched their Kickstarter campaign for Aw Yeah Comics, a new kid-friendly self-published comic line that will be distributed through their store (and online and at conventions). In less than 24 hours, they already raised their goal of $15k, and now on day three they are blowing away their push goals in incredible and amazing ways!
If you like funny books, all-ages comics, or want to support some really awesome creators, definitely support their efforts. Below is the video.
ALBERT THE ALIEN:
I’m continuing to plug away on the scripts, as well as the website. The scripts are coming quick and easy, but the website is something new for me. I’m struggling in a few areas, but should have this thing ready to launch in time for the webcomic to go live in March.
If you check it out now it won’t look like much. Content will obviously be king, but I also want the site to have a pleasing visual look to it, and make it super easy to navigate. It’s a work in progress.
I’m gearing up for my first appearance this year, Anime Milwaukee! I’ll be a guest along with friends and fellow comic creators Russell Lissau (Shrek, Strawberry Shortcake) and Alan Evans (Rival Angels).
It’s a fun way to start the year, so I hope to see you guys there! I’m going to be telling some new stories in panels, as well as having a grand ol’ time with attendees throughout the weekend.